i find it sickening when a foreigner uses the word “filipina”. to me, it doesn’t sound like it’s refering to a female from the philippines; instead, words like japayuki, mail-order brides, and domestic helper came swarming in my mean little head. i don’t know, but i can’t seem to feel proud or at least appreciate the word.
it irritates me that there are pinays who resort to looking for foreign boyfriends/husbands because she sees him as a walking pile of green dollar bills. dyan kayo magaling, utang o limos.
it irritates me again to see websites with photos of pinays advertising themselves as mail-order brides. it’s like, “order a filipina now and you get to have an exotic fuck buddy, a maid and care-giver all in one.” i wouldn’t be surprised if i see a “filipina” for auction on ebay. PULEEEZ—just how low can you go???
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years ago when i was in japan as an exchange student, there was a get-to-know activity so we could introduce ourselves randomly. an indonesian asked me where i came from, i replied, “philippines.” then he goes, “that’s cool! where’s that?”
it’s either he’s totally dumb-flunked geography (and global awareness), or the philippines hasn’t made that much impact in the international arena.
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the news a while ago was about president arroyo and the members of the opposition sitting together to discuss and make some more “bribable” laws. yes, note my sarcasm.
these idiots make more laws when:
1) we can’t even follow the ten commandments. (i bet you still find ten too much.)
2) you can still bribe your way out because the government is enjoying the extra income. (i pity those who bribe. how can you stoop so low?)
3) they don’t really know what goes on outside their elegant houses and cushy luxury cars. (aside from the fact that they’re busy computing how much they can get away with)
#1 by jannie on September 29, 2005 - 12:24 am
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yep. i remember that connotation too. i hope nde ako yung pinariringgan mo dito eh, piga?
actually i also had that experience when i was in japan. nuong nadaan kami sa isang bar, my host sensei actually pointed out to one and said, “filipino?” kakaiba talaga ang connotation na natin. kundi bayaran, domestic helper!
#2 by viva la pigarotti! on September 29, 2005 - 12:32 am
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hehe, ano ka ba, hindi no. :)
pero alam mo yun.. that uneasy feeling whenever you hear a foreigner say “filipina”? kung pwede nga lang sabihin na hindi tayo ganun..
#3 by Jomers on September 29, 2005 - 9:07 am
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its easier to bribe coz the time it would waste just waiting for them to get off their big lazy asses would cost much more than the bribe money itself, unfortunately, and they know it, so its pretty hard to change the ‘established’ system.
yeah, when you get to having your own business, its all a different ball game
#4 by Anonymous on September 29, 2005 - 12:36 pm
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I’d hit it!
#5 by viva la pigarotti! on September 29, 2005 - 6:11 pm
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this damned country lacks discipline and respect. it makes good people bad in order to survive a dog-eat-dog society.
dapat sa mga ganun, kinakaladkad sa kalsada, sinasagasaan atras-abante ng paulit-ulit at itapon sa kangkungan.
#6 by jannie on September 30, 2005 - 12:57 am
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true.true.i’m acutally afraid na my family would look at it that way as well. na foreigners have this idea na when you marry a pinay, you marry her whole family. gusto ko alisin yun sa impression ni ken
#7 by jome on September 30, 2005 - 9:18 am
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di ba totoo? i’ve heard stories from my grandma and mom about their friends who, after getting married to a pinoy started having all these ‘relatives of the bride’ coming to ask for money, etc. but then again, no first-hand experience with it, and i don’t think a few cases constitute the whole anyway?
#8 by Yagi on September 30, 2005 - 9:51 am
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kangkungan! too f***ing good for the likes of our politicians. hell’s too good for them pa nga e! dapat sa kanila something worse than Satan. oops, forgot, our politicians ARE worse than Satan!
#9 by viva la pigarotti! on September 30, 2005 - 2:35 pm
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may ganung experience ako. yung tipong, kala nila we’re growing money on trees por que dollar earner ang mom ko. but yeah, let’s not generalize.